Why does society treat victims of Narcissistic Abuse as the problem?

Deep down, most of us with a basic understanding of narcissism know the answer to this; we just don't want to accept it. Truth is, society is as narcissistic as the individuals who run it.

We just entered our third age of this universal existence. Consequently, we're a collective just coming to terms with our terrible twos; with an inability to see ourselves and a propensity for temper tantrums when things aren't as we'd like them to be. And, as long as we're entertaining a collective fantasy where that's normal and acceptable, the shift into a more realistic and sustainable way of living and interacting with each other is met with irrational resistance.

When one is wrapped up in an irrational and resistant way of being, they will surround themselves with fun house mirrors. You may be calling these “flying monkeys”. They are people who mirror back to a person with perceived power what is desired rather than what is. Our social systems are constructed with these fun house mirrors. This is why distortion is normal and how victims get painted as persecutors.

If you want to understand the dynamics, I explain them here:

https://youtu.be/FnG0mJP-SgA?si=yky5Cce7f_GA3Yw4

I hope this helps!

Be what you want to see! With love, Keya Diné

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